If you ain’t happy u can leave I’ve tried that but he was too chicken to leave cuz he liked the security I provided. He kept complaining about how I walked all over him, but in honesty I stayed in a sexless marriage and he was emotionally and physically abusive. He walked all over me! I was trapped but didn’t understand that I too could leave if I wasn’t happy. I didn’t understand I had that option. I’ve always been to told never give up on ‘your relationship’... as if everything was up to me. How I acted. How I behaved. Everything was excused that he did. I was giving 100% while only receiving nothing. And that south asian brainwashing worked for a while. Then one day I said fuck it and I filed for divorce and left with my daughter. Became a single mum by choice. My daughter needs me at 100% my ex-husband was a distraction to that goal. He put me into the deepest depression of my life and it’s a miracle I escaped. The amount of love I received from my daughter pushed me through and I owe her my life. Because if I didn’t leave, I would have most likely be killed or taken my own life. My daughter deserves to see an actual love relationship on a daily basis, because she is subconsciously mapping it. Like how I did my parents and how I found my way to marry a narcissist like my mother. I was brave enough to break the chain for my daughter. Thank you universe for introducing me to unconditional love. My daughter just loves me unconditionally, and I love her the same. First time, I’ve seen this type of love. I’m always surrounded by so much condition love, it’s exhausting. But because my daughter has shown me what real love looks like, now I can search for it. Thank you universe for my daughter, she’s my saviour, thank you for her existence.