You have what you have because it's meant to be there. People need to understand, there are many paths a person might have to take for them to be there. Imagine a beam of light travelling from one mirror to another, now imagine that same light slowed down. You'll see it's energy, particles, Connection - Warmth. Steadiness. Stillness. Its all meant to be like that. The same feeling you get when you know that person is meant to be. Be that beam of light, reflect what you consume but remember it came to you for a reason.