Black and white with a splash of life. . In relationships there will always be differing opinions, based on the individuals perception of the circumstance or event. . There will always be arguments, disagreements and debates. . Because a persons experience of life is always going to differ (slightly or greatly), resulting in differing beliefs. . So who is right? How do we work out whose opinion or perception is reality? . The truth is; who is right, is far less important than what’s right moving forward. . What’s the solution that will serve to move in a positive direction, the DESIRED OUTCOME for everyone involved? . One certainty - the solution is rarely found in wanting to be right for the sake of being right (your ego). . The truth is; who is right is probably somewhere in the middle, or, somewhere away from the influence of ego, greed, hate, distrust and motive. . Today; in your relationships, instead of arguing over who is right, discuss WHAT IS RIGHT - what is the best way forward from here? . Answer below; Would you rather be right or rather be loved?