My Dad was hands down the funniest, toughest, and at times meanest Dad anyone knew. For about 15 years, I just wanted to beat him at everything: basketball, kung fu, cooking, gambling, etc. Once I was old enough to get away, Id just leave the house for days but when things really got bad and I got arrested for two assault charges then spent my weekends doing ecstasy at Club La Vela, he took me out on a canoe like I was Fredo. I thought he was going to kill me, but he didnt. In my lowest time, he told me he realized he pushed me too far and that no matter what he loved me. That I didnt need to destroy myself to spite him. Its very hard to grow up in America with immigrant parents who run their families in a different way. We go to school with marks on our backs, legs, butts, but without passing judgment I just wanna remind the kids out there our Dads love us. For them to survive, they had to be tough and eat shit. Dads can only teach us what they know. My Dad was a street dude and a restaurant guy so thats what he gave me. Its made me who I am. I do not condone abuse or violence and I will not be raising my family the same way but to each era their own. I hope the Dads out there realize all kids want is for their Dads to be proud of them. That doesnt necessarily require that we fear you as well haha. There is enough scary shit in this world. I will push myself to provide non violent challenges, but I love my Dad because he did his best. In the latter years of his life, he is reflecting on a lot of his choices as well and Ill always be there to tell him I love him no matter what. You weren’t the best, but you didn’t have to be. You were MY Dad and I love you @louis.huang.714 we all love you ( @emeryhuang @wetriedtogetadog ) and be nicer to mom @therealmamahuang. Mom stop telling Dad he’s lazy. He’s retired. He’s supposed to watch porn and play tennis all day lol. Happy Father’s Day to all the Dads. It aint about being the best. Its about being the pound for pound best version of yourself every day and remembering that even when you fall short, people love you. Lets get it yall. Life is dope spices. Save the Earth so it doesnt end in 2050 juh heard!